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Hi! I am moving out of my parents house for uni and have 2 bonded cats I got from the shelter last year. One of them is extremely attached to me and will not leave my side even if I got to the bathroom he does get rather aggressive with the other cat if I'm petting the other one too much but ik they both love each other as the both sometimes groom each other and sleep together. The cat who is attached to me is an extremely shy boy and the other one is extremely outgoing. What should I do?

Hi! I am moving out of my parents house for uni and have 2 bonded cats I got from the shelter last year. One of them is extremely attached to me and will not leave my side even if I got to the bathroom he does get rather aggressive with the other cat if I'm petting the other one too much but ik they both love each other as the both sometimes groom each other and sleep together. The cat who is attached to me is an extremely shy boy and the other one is extremely outgoing. What should I do?

Updated On November 26th, 2020

Pet's info: Cat | Mixed Breed | Male | neutered | 9 years and 10 months old | 9 lbs

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Answered By Dr. Melanie, BVSc MS

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I think you should definitely take the cat who is very bonded to you with you to uni. I don't think he would do well without you around if he's very attached to you. The outgoing one will likely do ok without you, and he can adjust to not having the other cat there. The other option is to take them both! I hope this helps.

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